self control

It's obscure how the Holy Spirit doesn't evoke self control; at least, not all of the time. The Holy Spirit cannot evoke that because even people who don't know Christ have self control at their disposal. So where does it come from? Self control must come from God, since it is a fruit of the Spirit. Hold on ... fruit of the (Holy) Spirit. Maybe the Holy Spirit is more prevalent than I give credit to? After all, demons are existent outside of those who are possessed.

Self control, self control, self control. It's a psychological blessing of sorts.

Is it a supernatural act of God which comes through the skin of a mere mortal, or does God give humans the choice to use it, regardless of emotions, feelings, etc?